Lol men don’t understand the difference between rough sex and I’m a Fuckboy sex. Rough sex is when I trust you enough for you to do what you want roughly to my body. It’s me submitting and trusting. Me trusting so much I blissfully submit to your will and I cum because You give it to me. Fuckboy sex is just you ramming your lame ass dick into my pussy till you cum and then want to take a nap. Don’t confuse the two.
why yall keep letting “fuckboys” smash yall is my question?
why cant men just learn to please a woman lmao dont put this shit on us
No really. Why even have sex with the guy if you perceive it that way?
Lol if men were as good at sex as they are at putting the blame on women we wouldn’t be having this conversation actually
Maybe I’m too young and inexperienced to point fingers. Can anyone get better without practice? Some guys just fuck to cum instead of trying to connect. Some girls just fuck to get theirs too. I’ll make sure to steer clear of that shit lol.
No fingers need to be pointed out. Learn to have conversations and discourses about the dynamics between men and women without putting the blame on women. It’s getting old get a better argument and standing point. But it’s not about practice because men know alright no one who gets in the position to fuck is just clueless like they fuck all women the same because they don’t care and due to media coverage they think they are doing it right and being manly enough in the situation. Just the same as you can give men the benefit of the doubt try giving that to women as well. But the thing is you won’t know if “Lisa” doesn’t care about you in the bedroom until you’re in the bedroom.
Do you at least tell him how to improve? My argument isn’t about women. I already get communication and dynamism in the bedroom. I’m just wondering if there’s an actual reason to delineate between the two. Why tolerate the lesser? I’ve seen more women comment on bad sex than men and maybe you’re right. They don’t want to admit they need to improve and most likely utilize the same techniques or lack thereof on different women. But if they’re never called out how would they know? Some ignorance is just the lack of information. Not a conscious lack of effort. Idk. I just never want to be that guy because I care about their pleasure. If they never told me something was wrong I wouldn’t know.
Lmao you live in an interesting reality. I’ll tell you men simply do not care. I was dating a guy like my sophomore year of college and he was so bad sexually and I’d tell him hey it’s not working for me can you try this or this and I’d send him charts, articles, all kinds of shit it’s the journalist in me to have sources and you know what happened? It NEVER improved and he didn’t ever care to get better and I struggled with him for a few months before realizing I couldn’t do it anymore at all. So like I said men know they just do NOT care. But hey, make it on us women cause we don’t “communicate” to our partners lol smh
That one guy that you dated doesn’t represent all men, he doesn’t even represent most men. Most men will listen if you tell them that they aren’t doing something right and will try and correct it.
Yet this post has 19K notes meaning I’m not the only one who has experienced this. But sure my primary source means nothing, of course.
STOP 👏🏿PICKING 👏🏿SHIT👏🏿MEN
STOP 👏🏾 BEING 👏🏾 MEN 👏🏾 THAT 👏🏾 AREN’T 👏🏾 SHIT 👏🏾 THEN 👏🏾 BLAMING 👏🏾 IT 👏🏾 ON 👏🏾 WOMEN. It’s counterproductive.
Most men will absolutely not listen to women at all. And the men that do are seen as an anomaly or weird or weak. There is not an individual culture or country culture in which men are seen in a better light or rewarded for listening to women especially when it comes to anything about sex or sexuality. (OK there may be a few but the majority it’s not like that) Even the focuses of science up until contemporary times shit even still in contemporary times is fueled by a male way of seeing things as right. Men are told and taught that they will know what’s right for their woman not listen to her or respect her but be a man and do man shit. Like this post keeps saying stop blaming this shit on women, listen, learn, change not just yourself but the bullshit patriarchy that affects us all.
^^^ I always say… I went to a seminar and a man said, “Feminism is a gift to women because we can’t even live up to the patriarchal standards we’ve created.”
Real talk! I hear men bitching about feminism buy at the same time talking bout societal pressures and shit and just like feminism would fix that bro. You ain’t as manly as your father and he treats you like leas of a person because of the patriarchy and its bullshit ideas! Imagine if how worthy we were weren’t determined by how much we fulfill the stereotypical idea of what our gender is supposed to do. Imagine just being yourself!
I’d literally cry of joy if we could all be ourselves with no pressure to conform to anything
. I have been lucky enough to meet some men who care to improve and not cause me pain, but most of my experiences with guys have involved sex that painful, selfish or just plain uncomfortable in some way. Including fuckboys, nice guys, grown men, boyfriends who were perfect in every other way. Attitudes need to change.
Stop chasing people. If they block you, cut off contact, ignore you… Let them go. Let those who naturally gravitate to you enjoy your energy. We spend so much time begging for those who wouldn’t blink twice at the thought of you. Cherish those who are there by choice, and not there because you chased them every time they decided to escape.
